My ds is 2.4, I have recently had to change his childminder, this was a sudden unexpected change because his old childminder has been suspended by ofsted and is under investigation, my ds started going there when he was 6 months and I was very happy with her.
My ds has been going to his new childminder twice a week for 3 weeks now, the problem is when I drop him off he clings to my and when I go to leave he is hysterical and screams and crys and seems very unconsoleable. My ds didnt go last week as we were on holiday so when I said to him today he was going to her house he just kept saying 'no *** house' over and over and was worse than ever when I dropped him off. The childminder text me literally minutes later to say he had stopped crying and was now playing.
In general my ds is a happy child likes playing with other children when I am there at toddler groups etc, but he can get very clingy to me and even when we have his friends round to our house to play he will keep coming back to me to sit on my knee every so often.
When we were on holiday last week, we were at a haven camp, and I took him to the kids show in the evening but he just wanted to sit at the table with me rather than on the floor with the other kids.
Has anyone else experienced similar with there children at this age, is it just a stage?
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Is this seperation anxiety?
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ahhhmen · 14/07/2009 10:08
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