HELP...DD (2.9) screaming house down refusing to go to bed........dh losing it with her

[Sunshine78]

My dd is as I type screaming the house down. DH has just about lost it with her and has just lost his temper with her and is now holding her bedroom door shut (he is not letting me help) DD just will not go to bed (been going on for months tried the returning to bed without talking to her thing till blue in the face normally will only settle if I lay with her on our bed. She has been in and out of hospital since she was 1 and each time we just get her settled back at home we are in again - help please I'm in tears

[mumonthenet]

oh dear sunshine, sorry we all missed this.

Hope everything is under control now.

I was going to suggest distraction, disengage etc....