Hi Mumsnet
I am new to this, so please be kind.
I have a 4 year old daughter, who is really lovely, most of the time.
But lately, she is speaking to me in a way that is frankly rude and disrespectful. She answer back so often and seems to have adopted a whining voice when even asking for the simplest thing, even before I have said no!
We have had many stresses going on the past month with my DHs job, but this predates that. I can fully see the link, but it seems more than that.
It is really hard to know what to do as sometimes she is great, and other times, when we have had a really fun day, done everything she wants and had a good laugh, her head starts to rotate like in 'The Exorcist' and I seem to lose her. I know she is tired as she is the youngest in her class.
I have tried over the past few months:
Naughty step
Putting a favourite toy on a shelf
Taking her away from the situation and talking quietly to her
Shouting
I have not smacked her, but sometimes it feels like the 'soft'punishments are really not working and she no longer...is fears the right word? I think I mean respects me. My MIL was horrified by the way she is speaking to me and said there was no way she would have taken that from my DH or SIL and a firm ssmack would have startled them out of it.
Any advice, please?
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RenagadeMum · 06/07/2009 19:09
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