Dd is due to start school in sept. Her 2 days in preschool see's her come home with blazing reports of good behaviour, polite and well natured. A credit to us...
But the days she is home she seems to be the opposite.Not all the time, she can be an angel and very loving and affectionate..
My main concerns are the "attutude". Im a sahm and dh works away most weeks. She tends to be fine with dh 90% of the time BUT with me (esp when dh home) she can virtually look straight through me.
I feel I have to ask her to do things or not to do things half a dozen times before she listens. Usually with a response of "I don't want to do that" or "why not" etc.
I get comments like "I don't like mummy", "I don't want to sit with you" etc. All quite upsetting for me. I had started a thread last week about her fondness for dh and wanting him to do everything for her and came out with the result that its because she knows I will be there regardless but I must admit Im finding it all hard..
My concern above the above I feel may be because of her due to start big school...
Could she feel its "mummy" who is sending her there..?
What can I do to turn the negatives into positives.
Its to easy for me to turn around and say "well I don't want to be your friend" in response to her comments...
In fact there are times in response to her I have played her off and its been to my success iykwim...
How do I play this..?
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shhhh · 05/07/2009 19:50
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