Hi there,
I'm new to the board & have a huge problem at the moment I was wondering if anyone could help with. I have a 2.3yr ds who is being very abusive to my dh. He hits & kicks him all the time.
Its strange though because its not like ds is being angry aggressive - he thinks it is so funny to wind his father up & get a reaction & he will go out of his way to slap & kick even though we keep telling him that it is a not nice. He doesn't do it to anyone but my dh.
It is really driving my husband crazy & I found him in tears this morning because he doesn't know what to do. We have tried everything to get ds to stop, but it has been going on for the past 9 months on & off & I am scared my husband is going to snap just now. Some days ds is ok & will be lovely to his dad, but most days he will start the day off by climbing into our bed & kick & hit his father.
We have tried walking away, ignoring the behaviour, not reacting at all, talking to him, shouting at him, even had to resort to trying to give him a smack which definately didn't work. Naughty step is just a joke to my son. We are both going up the wall & my dh is starting to not want anything to do with his son which is breaking my heart. I am 7 months pregnant & need to get this solved soon as I don't have the energy to keep putting myself between them. My dh tries so hard with ds, but it seems the more he tries to be a good dad the more ds is horrible to him. All he wants to be is a good dad & not be hit by his son
I'm sorry this is long & rambling, but I have done countless searches on the internet & spoken to people but nobody seems to have the same problem. Anyone out there encountered such a problem before?
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Toddler hitting/kicking parent problem
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KimSkl · 02/07/2009 11:18
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