I'm new to all this (both myself and two week old first born son). I had a complete nightmare first week, during which the midwife said "goodness has that child fed...(i then explained the long time of feeding, showed position...during which my wee son showed the midwife that he was just wanting to suck and getting cross when milk came) she detached son and he promptly let out another toe curling cry to which she said "that child needs a dummy because he is using you as one". News to me, but made sense. I had never imagined using a dummy (i had heard bad press) and after lots of crying (myself included) i agreed with my other half to do the dummy thing. Now a week later and i regret it. I dont like seeing him with a dummy and i worry about the bad press. How do i dig us out of this one? Any ideas on how to get him to not use it? Is it really just cold turkey or are there some techniques i could try?
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