ds has been at chilminders and nursery with same child for a couple of years.
When he first started with CM, his behaviour was so bad towards ds that she gave notice to childs parents, he ended up staying and CM has worked very hard to keep him under control. Nursery also complain to CM about his behaviour, so its not just us.
Anyway his parents know that he has issues but are under stress of their own (which will never change), and rarely want to deal with things, I have been at parties when he has behaved dreadfully and she just allows him to carry on rather than have a confrontation, he also wakes in the night screaming for her to get a drink/blanket/dummy (he's 5).
Went to primary school visit today, and he's there because sadly they will go through primary together, ends up taking toy off ds, bending his finger back, grandparent didnt say anything (i know her too, she often does the school run) so I ended up telling him off and she said 'oh Im sure he wouldnt have done it' to which i replied 'its been a daily occurance for years' at which she looked shocked and said 'oh I know he's nasty to his brother but not to X (ds).
Spoke to CM who says she doesnt mention every episode to parents as would take her an hour a day to report all his bad behaviour.
He really is the most dislikable (sp) child Ive ever met, he actually repels people (yes honestly). I just dont know what to do, and wanted a rant really. have already warned school and said I dont want them paired
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I really despise this child ....... whats the best way to deal with things?
mosschops30 · 30/06/2009 17:04
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