This might sound really silly, but should I worry that DD (3) endlessly copies other children, even her little brother (19 months)? When she meets other kids in the park she follows them around and wants to go on anything they're on (they often get fed up with her and try to run away). When she's with her cousins she wants to do everything they do to the extent of only eating what they eat and refusing to do anything if they're not doing it (we have to pretend they're getting dressed/going home/putting on shoes etc to get her to do things). If DS is playing she wants to do whatever he's doing and often follows him around.
I worry that she's not secure enough in who she is to be able to do her own thing. Which is daft because she's very confident in lots of other ways, speaks her mind, goes into new situations without a big fuss etc. etc. I would expect her to copy older kids (her cousin is almost 5 and she worships her), but not younger ones. Or is all this copying just perfectly normal?
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DD copies everyone
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MissM · 29/06/2009 09:04
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