Dd aged 2.10 has become extremely angry and is having really bad tantrums daily now.
Yesterday, when my mum was looking after her, she called her over so she could brush dd's hair to which dd responded with a screaming fit, throwing herself on the floor, hammering her fists and hammering a toy which she somehow hit herself with in the face, giving herself a bleeding fat lip.
It seems the slightest, usually most trivial thing is enough of a trigger for her and she is wild and quite out of control, then after an hour or so of screaming she seems to completely forget it all and is back to being her happy and inquisitive self
There are countless examples - her ignoring me talking to her, me turning off the tv which is holding her attention, her throwing her toys all around the room.
Me offering her usual breakfast which she loves, but it seems it was the wrong suggeston and her screaming, shouting and being very angry for about an hour. Then coming through and seemingly having forgotten it all, saying "ooo breakfast! I'd like cheerios please" (what i had offered in the first place!!)
In the supermarket, she wanted to push the trolley without any help from me - not even a finger to guide it! Yes another tantrum, lying screaming on the floor...
She has started hitting me when she doesn't get her own way, she shouts at me (I'm guilty of raising my voice at her when I'm at the end of my tether) throws things - whatever comes to hand... I'm just at a loss as to what to do and just where this has all come from. She has been exerting her very wilful personality for a long time now but nothing like this.
She is in nursery one day a week and I wonder if she is seeing this behaviour and copying. She eats a very healthy diet and I try to keep sweet things to a minimum but I'm wondering if there may be a trigger there, it just seems so out of the blue.
I'm at the end of my tether, very tired as I work 3 days and my dp is away for 3 weeks at a time so I'm on my own and just at a loss what to do / how to deal with this. She just seems so very very angry and unable to control her frustration. Her father also has anger management issues so maybe I shouldn't be surpised. Is she just an angry person who will need extra help in learning how to deal with these emotions as she grows older or am I overreacting and it's simply a two's tantrum that she'll grow out of?
I read another thread on here about the highly sensitive child which describes her well.
Any experience of this kind of behaviour / thoughts very appreciated, thanks.
Sorry for being over long.
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DD age 2.10 is very angry, archetypal devil / angel child!! any experience please??
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linserella · 25/06/2009 22:52
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