how do you reconcile how school does it vs how you do it.
Ds1 had all sorts of merit points at school and he is incredibly competitive.
I try to get him to think about consequences and feelings and how his actions CAN IMPACT ON all of that...
ND I MUST ADMIT WHEN heis proud of getting merit points, my hackles raasie a little.
there'sa new haed who i think is working hARrd and getting soem externa;;y good results, but i do hate the "control through rewards/points/stickers" type of system and the school seems to be chamging and going down this route.
any comments/bits if support/blah blah
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if you are a bit unconditional and school is very reward based...
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oopsagain · 25/06/2009 18:12
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