Have posted stressing over ds' non-conformism plenty of times. He really doesn't like to do anything anyone else is doing. so if a group of children are being encouraged to listen to a story at nursery, he will choose to paint. If it's painting time, he will sit in the story corner. He plays happily with other children but prefers not to join in "organised" activities.
Anyway was watching him on holiday while dd joined in the cheesey kids disco. Ds was transfixed, he inched towards the others a tiny bit at a time, then backed away a bit, then moved closer etc. He eventually got to where the others were when the entertainment woman tried to hold his hand and he did a runner.
It's made me look at the whole non joining in thing so differently. I think maybe he would like to join in but can't work out quite how to.
Anyone got any ideas/experience?
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non-conformism (again). Am wondering if ds (3) might just be feeling shy?
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deaconblue · 24/06/2009 21:15
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