I've tried ignoring it for the loooongest time. I've mildly but consistently told her that we don't blow raspberries, and that it's not very pleasant. She knows it is rude.
Whenever someone says hello or talks to her she blows an enormous spitty rasperry and it's horrid and I'm fed up!
Her teachers are tired of it and telling her to stop.
Everyone is getting fed up, and the polite smiles of my friends are getting more and more rictus.
How do I stop her from doing it.
She is three.
She does not respond well to incentivising or punishment. She is not bothered about star charts or treats for doing or not doing something. She thinks getting in trouble is brilliant fun.
She's mostly a nice little girl, if a bit socially awkward (even for a three-year-old) and I think she gets a bit overcome or feels silly or something and now it has become a habit.
I'm looking for clever solutions. Maybe replacing the behaviour with something else? Or explaining in a 3-yr-old way about WHY we don't do it. She likes explanations and rules.
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I really HAVE to stop dd blowing raspberries all the time. How??
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HuffwardlyRudge · 16/06/2009 16:06
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