DD is 7.5 and showing behaviour that I would associate more with a stroppy teenager.
She's almost constantly moody or grumpy and can instantly change from happy to tearful. If there's not constant stimulation then she goes into a sulk. (example - she came back from the swimming pool with a friend which she enjoyed thoroughly and then went into an immediate tearful huff because I was not armed immediately with another exciting activity).
Also, she's become very disobedient, and appears to be purposely goading me with refusals to do what I ask to the point that I lose my temper.
I've tried to ask her why she behaves like this and find out if anything's bothering her but she doesn't appear to have any issues. Her teacher (and our childminder while I'm at work until one hour after she finishes school) both say she's delightful and exemplary in behaviour so this "attitude" seems to be reserved for my benefit.
I try and fill her week with fun activities but nothing seems enough.
My only thoughts are that maybe she's not sleeping enough- we put her to bed at a reasonable time but she insists on sitting up and reading for hours. Not sure how to police this without removing all books and toys from her bedroom. It's also getting very hot where we live (in Cyprus) and I wonder if she's getting disturbed sleep.
Quite often she wakes in the night, too, claiming to have nightmares. As you can imagine, these disturbed nights have a knock-on effect on me too, so don't help with our ability to tolerate on another!
Does anyone empathise or have any advice, or can tell me it's just a "phase" and she'll grow out of it?
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Sullen and stroppy 7yr old DD - at my wits' end!
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SheDancesTheFlamingo · 14/06/2009 10:50
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