DD (4.9), has been competely dry at night for 2 years but in the last month or so has starting wetting the bed on a very regular basis.
Have taken her to the docs a couple of times but it appears there is nothing physically wrong.
My hunch is that it is to do with anxiety about starting school in September. This seems to be borne out by the fact that this week she has wet the night after receiving a letter from school telling her which class she will be in, and 3x(!) last night after we had an induction session yesterday (which went fine but I guess it is perhaps playing on her mind.) We are now trying to dry off our entire collection of DD's bedding (she refuses point blank to wear 'dry nites' and I don't really want to go down that road if I can help it as would rather just sort the problem out).
DH and I have been sympathetic, obviously but - and please don't flame me here - I am starting to wonder if it is entirely accidental.
Initially she was very obviously half asleep and upset when she told us she had wet the bed. Now she increasingly seems wide awake and not particularly bothered. On one occasion last night she called out to me for something completely unrelated, I went out of the room again briefly and then she announced she'd wet the bed. DH has also been to see her a couple of times when she's done it and said to me he's sure she'd sat there and done it on purpose. I wasn't convinced but now am starting to wonder. Her behaviour has been a bit off lately (although touch wood has been better the last week or two) and it's certainly not beyond her to tell small fibs.
I figure a star chart will give us a better idea of whether it is all purely accidental (I don't doubt for a minute that at least some of it is completely genuine). I'm not going to tell her that we're having doubts, just say would you like to do this (she loves star charts).
Obviously though I don't want to make the matter worse by making her feel guilty or as though she's 'failed' if she does wet the bed.
Don't shoot - am just completely bemused and frustrated with the whole situation .
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Would a star chart help with bedwetting?
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womblingfree · 13/06/2009 06:44
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