DS has just turned 4. He has never been a fantastic eater, but is okay. Not very into vegetables, but likes fruit. He eats a decent breakfast, and is usually okay at lunch time. However, more and more often, he is refusing to eat dinner.
If it's fishfingers and chips (his favourite) on offer, then he will eat no problem. If he's in the mood / hungry, he will eat. But other times he will just announce that he doesn't like his dinner - without trying it, and often when it's something that he's eaten and liked before.
If he really doesn't like something, or is even just not in the mood for it, I don't have a problem with giving him fruit or yogurt instead, as long as he has had a couple of tastes of the meal first. But when he won't even taste it, it really winds me up, and turns into a power struggle, which is clearly not a good thing.
On the days that he refuses to eat, he never seems bothered by the lack of food, and doesn't wake up hungry in the night. And he's not a skinny waif who is going to waste away. So I'm not worried from that point of view. My only real concern is that if I let him just not eat anything he takes a visual dislike too that he'll turn into a fussy eater who doesn't eat quite a lot of meals even when he is hungry.
So while I now that my insistence that he try two spoonfuls of every meal is just creating conflict at the moment, I don't want to stop it if it means that I create a bigger problem down the line. Can anyone knock some sense into me, please?
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4yo not eating dinner
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cornflakegirl · 12/06/2009 13:29
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