What would you do? I roared at him earlier, which ended with me, DS and DD(7) in tears - he would not get in his car seat and I then put him in and while strapping him in he lashed out at me on the forehead with a toy plane - and it drew blood! Well I lost it with him, balled at him, slammed the car door and then got in my side and off we drove with him crying his heart out - I think I scared him. After a few minutes he was saying sorry mummy I be good now, but this is a typical scene for us at the moment and it is wearing.
I realise it is usually when he is tired - the 4pm onwards time of day is a battlefield. He throws things, lashes out and smacks, punches, etc in sheer frustration. Usually triggered by me saying no to something he has asked for - usually food - and quite often too close to teatime that it would mean that he wont eat his tea.
Food is another issue - he is a poor eater, but would snack all the time rather than have a meal with us - he wont eat proper food - I give him whatever we are having, as well as some tinned pasta (I know....) or mash and beans, and he pushes it around, as he will have had some fruit earlier.
It is getting to a point where I can see his behaviour getting worse and worse as he gets older and being the child that no one wants to play with in Nursery!
When he is good, his is lovely, and a delight to play with, but how do I deal with these outbursts? He is a firery redhead!!!
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DS hits throws and smacks - 2.2 years old - horrorbag!
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andirobo · 09/06/2009 21:55
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