DS (2.11) has been toilet trained for 3 weeks and although he totally 'got it' almost instantly for weeing (having left it 5 months since the first unsucessful attempt!) and is now like an old hand with zero accidents since the first days, he has only managed to do a couple of poos in his potty/toilet as he plainly doesn't like it and can get v. stressed. He holds on as long as he can or goes in his pants when he is out of the house and can usually do it without being rumbled and whisked to the toilet first! Anyway, I was being pretty relaxed about it as this seems from what I have read to be quite common early on and I hoped it would just click soon and if not I would just endure a pair of dirty pants a day rather than let it be a issue (better than nappies, right!).
UNTIL last week when he pooed in his pants at Kindergarten (we are in Germany) after not having a single accident there until now. Anyway, the first time they were fine but having done it twice, they are saying they want me to put him back in nappies! That is the last thing I want as I am concerned it will make him regress back to weeing too and am feeling very upset with them for being so unsupportive, is this normal? Any advice? I am at my wits end as he is doing so brilliantly otherwise.
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Kindergarten want DS to wear nappies again because he has had two BM accidents?
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Hummahummamumma · 08/06/2009 10:28
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