DD is 16.5 months. Posted a few times about her "high spririted" behaviour.
Today was the worst tantrum to date and I feel that I can't do anything to help her/it.
She goes to nursery Mon - Weds, likes it but gets tired.
I am with her Thurs & Fri.
She slept 6pm - 6am last night.
By 8am she seemed tired. Normally I don't "let" her have a nap until 12 as otherwise she does not sleep for the rest of the day and I go insane . However, she seemed tired so I put her to bed, no joy. She wanted up and I was quite relieved.
9am - ASDA. Was just killing time really before meeting my friend at 945am. She refused to sit in the trolley, screaming and shouting no and trying to hit me. I do the staying calm and trying to reason her but she scowls and says "no no no".
I give up and go straight to the childrens play area (at my gym) to meet my friend. Normally DD loves it there.
Instead she shouts "no" at any child that comes in to the room and became possessive of every toy (maybe a nursery related thing?)
Again I calmly explained about sharing and sat down and played lego with her until my friend arrived.
DD throws a couple of strops but nothing too big, more just throwing self on floor and whimpering, tried to ignore her.
11am - try to feed her, she throws it all on the floor.
Bit annoyed by this point but figure she can't be hungry (normally is)
1130am - screaming. Decide to call it a day. On the way out of the gym, bearing in mind that I have calmly told her we are off to bed she slaps me 12 ish times around the face. I am carrying her (trying) with her screaming and arching back (trying to look like I calm about the whole situation) and she then would come up and hit me, not hard at all but more dismismisvely.
Does anyone know what I am meant to do? It does not hurt at all but I find it unacceptable and more to the point, embarassing.
I said "poor mummy you dont want to hurt mummy" and she just scowled.
Then huge trantrum getting her in to the car seat. I confess I almost gave up at this point. I then had to man handle her in to seat as I figured it was safer than driving without the car seat strapped together.
Home,ok and straight to bed. .... Phew.
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pamelat · 04/06/2009 12:34
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