At the moment DD constantly wants to be sat on my knee or carried around. If I'm in the room she will follow me around and cling to my leg and say "Mummy up", if I sit down she climbs all over me.
She has never really been this clingy before, it's a new development. She's quite confident and not at all shy with other people / strangers.
The worse thing is she now refuses to go to DH. If I'm busy and she is clinging to me, I generally pick her up and pass her to DH and ask him to play with her for a bit, which always worked in the past. But now she screams NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO MUMMMMMYYYYYYYYY and tries to throw herself at me and cries and screams. Today she had a massive tantrum because of this - she was screaming and bashing her head on the floor and throwing her toys at the wall and wouldn't go near DH at all
If I'm not there DH says she's totally fine with him, so it's just when I am there. DH's obviously upset by it, and feels a bit rejected I think.
LAst night I even had a weird dream where I was trying to complete a series of difficult tasks (like in the Crystal Maze) and I couldn't do them because I had to carry DD and everyone was getting cross with me See it is really driving me mad!
I guess I just wondered why she's being like this and whether it's a stage which passes quite quickly. Please God tell me it is.
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My DD is driving me round the bend -she is really clingy to me and seems to hate DH
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PeppermintPatty · 14/02/2009 22:30
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