I'm hoping someone out there can help me. I met two very good friends through ante natal classes so our boys are all the same age.
My ds was the first borne with the next only 12 days later and the last one just under 2 months after my ds. The last one has issues with eating. He looks healthy but is tiny and so light in comparison to the other two. Anyway, that's not really the help I need though if anyone has any advice for his mum (neither of them are on the internet so I'm asking on their behalf) about how to get him to eat that would be great. I gave his mum Annabel Karmel for Christmas and he eats from that but has just gone back to not eating hardly anything and it can take her a minimum of an hour just for him to have four mouthfuls.
The real reason I'm writing is because the boy who is a couple of weeks younger is still not walking. My ds tends to be ahead in comparison in nearly everything he does but by very little, crawling a week or two before the other etc. Well his mum was talking with me today saying she is worried that he isn't walking. My advice to her was not to worry and not to compare him with my ds who is now running as opposed to walking everywhere. My ds has been walking since he was 11 mths and they are both now 14 months.
She then told me that she was told that if kids aren't walking by the time they are 14 months to go and see the health visitor. Her son certainly looks fine to me as he understands things when you talk to him, his memory is good in the fact he remembers how to play with things and so on.
Is she right to worry. She told me she wasn't comparing but how can you not when you see one crawling and the other walking everywhere. Isn't it a natural reaction to compare and worry if there is something wrong with your child.
She has also told me he can stand in the middle of the room without any assistance to get up but I haven't seen this yet so can't confirm this.
Do you think there is a problem or is this normal. When should children with no learning difficulties be able to start walking?
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Comparing children - does anyone else have this issue?
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Meanmum · 02/04/2003 19:00
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