I'm so fed up and depressed about family life at the moment. At the weekend when DH and I are both around, DD (3) is pretty much constantly whinging and cross and full of 'no no nos' from the moment she wakes up til she goes to bed.
She's usually a happy and sometimes even angelic little person when we're out and about, but at home she seems to be constantly furious, either demanding that one of us does something for her, gets something for her or telling us that she certainly won't do xyz (put on shoes, brush teeth, put away toys etc), accompanied by screaming fits, lots of yelling, tears and tantrums. Our usual response is 'if you don't do x, you won't get to do w' or 'if you don't clear up z, it goes in the bin'... and we follow through (well, toys do'nt actually get put in the bin, they get hidden away for a bit otherwise there would be nothing left).
I know this is probably just the age and a phase, but come Sunday night (which is now - we live in Australia), DH and I are spent, hollow shells of our former selves, both brimming with sadness and just a touch of resentment that the other has probably caused this monstrous child to behave so badly but both at the end of our tether and totally confused as to how to handle it.
As it is, neither of us look forward to weekends at the moment although we're full of optimism every Sat morn that this one will be different. I guess this has been going on for a month or so, although she's always been an, ahem, spirited child.
Is it that she can't handle us together? I'm a SAHM but she gets plenty of alone time with her dad and together time with us both in the week and weekend. Is it that I'm 15 weeks pregnant and she can sense change is coming although my instinct tells me it's not that?
Is it that she's just a total pain in the you know what 3 year old and hopefully this too will pass?
In the meantime, how do we cope without going nuts and hating how stressful and exhausting life as a family has become.
BTW.... there are plenty of tantrums and lots of bad behaviour during the week too, but just not quite as bad.
Thank you for reading my rant!
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So sad that my 3 year old is angry and cross esp at the weekend.... what to do?
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ejbab · 02/11/2008 08:47
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