Hi, my 3.5 year old daughter genrelly has very good manners, she says please and thank you and when someone thanks her for somthing she says you're welcome, which is sweet. It's just that when someone says to her "I like your dress", or "haven't you got lovely hair" she either just looks at them or says "yes I know".
I always say thank you for her or say to her "say thank you" and she does. She looks a bit confused though as if she's thinking, what do I need to say thank you for.
How should I explain this too her in a way she'll understand?
Also when we go to someone's house she'll say "Can I have some juce, apple, bannana etc please". I'll say to her, you should'nt ask for things in someone elses house and she'll say "I said please". I don't know wether to try and teach her all these more complicated manners, or just be pleased with the ones she uses. She is very tall for her age and therefore people seem to sxpect more of her. I don't want to be too strict with her but don't want her to feel awkward when some one compliments her and she just stands there looking blank, because she dosn't know what to say. She is very eager to please and very conciderate of others, she really is a little poppet and I don't want anyone to think otherwise.
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How can I teach my 3.5 year old , more complicated manners ?
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mummyloveslucy · 01/11/2008 19:09
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