My 19mth old ds is lovely 90% of the time - so funny, affectionate and loving. Just in the past month or two, he has started getting quite frustrated and impatient, and has been lashing out at other children and adults.
At toddler groups, he will hit other kids without any provocation, it's almost as if he's trying to see what will happen. He also hits or scratches if another child takes his toy, or if he can't get to an activity because of children in the way.
He is at the stage where he is learning new words every day, but currently only has about 20 words that we can understand. He does make himself quite clear with tone and gesture. If dh and I don't understand what he wants, or if he doesn't get his own way, he'll bang his head off the nearest hard object, cry, and look at us accusingly.
How can we deal with this? I'm trying to understand why he's getting frustrated with us, and work out what he wants. When he hits other kids, I say no and take him away from the situation. I've also been trying to teach him to be gentle with his baby doll, stroking and patting rather than hitting, but he will hit the doll and then laugh.
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Hitting and head-banging in 19mth old
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TeenyTinyTorya · 29/10/2008 21:08
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