Ok, please read this in full before you shoot me down!
My third baby is now just 3 months old. I have tried (a bit half heartedly) to give him a dummy a few times at various points, but he has refused. I was not too unhappy about this as ds2 had a dummy and it was such a pain in the you know what all the time. Ds1 sucked his thumb and this was great. So we were hoping ds3 would do the same - but no luck.
I am breastfeeding (I am a bf counsellor by the way so know the evils of dummies, but am confident in feeding and not worried about it affecting attachment). I feed whenever he wants which is quite frequent - not a problem for me. I co-sleep and feed through the night - again happy with this. What I am not happy with is that he will only sleep with my breast IN his mouth. I am happy to feed him off to sleep and then carry in a sling - he is less happy as he wants to stay on my breast and therefore screams in the sling until asleep. He will happily feed off to sleep and then sleep on my lap with breast in mouth - not practical with two other children and out and about all day (I have tried multiple times to feed in various slings - I am an experienced sling wearer - but it just does not work with my shape and size).
So, what he desperately needs is a dummy to suck while sleeping when I am not able to have him attached to me. But will he take one? Oh no. I have tried cherry teats, orthodontic teats, the NUK teats which are sort of their own unique shape, and the Tommee Tippee closer to nature ones that are sort of like nipples that move in and out when they suck. This is the one he pushes out of his mouth less than the others, but he is still not really taking it.
I spent today actually dipping the dummy into my expressed breastmilk before putting it into his mouth in a desperate attempt to get him to take it! It sounds ridiculous but true!
So, what on earth do I do to get him to take a dummy? He will not suck his own fingers/thumb. He will only occasionally suck my finger (though I would be happy to do this for him). I am out of ideas and desperate for him to take the dummy!
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Tricks to get baby to take a dummy?
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IlanaK · 25/10/2008 20:59
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