i give up!!! my daughter is in senior school walks out of the house with her hearing aids in and takes them off immediatley as she gets to school. WE get told off by her teachers. we have had meetings with teachers who said that they and support staff would check and ull her on it - even her brothers are checking - not that she cares. 12 going on 15 and thinks she is "miss thang" her popularity at school is high - which is good, its not like her friends dont know of her hearing aid existance.
i had to have a ding dong on mothers day as we were going out for MY mothers day treat to get her to wear them. she started crying saying people look at her funny - even her big brothr ( who does as big brothers do and is generally not nice to her particularly) said " you cant even see them!"
you cant see them - its definatley a psychologicl thing - and i cant explain any more than i have how they will improve her speech and increase her ability to learn - i have told her she is working harder to keep up than everyone else inschool,
i have took things at home off her until she wears them
she is partially deaf so can manage - i mean ..manage without them. she lipreads excellently - most people dont even know - but she shouldnt have to manage and senior school is a completely different animal to junior school where she was popular BECUASE of them and loved wearing them.
she has a hearing support teacher who may see her once in a blue moon. we have told her - she talks to my dd and makes no difference
its all going to shit - and i just seem to be threatening negative sanctions and shouting a lot. its a hard one mnetters - nice talk wont work, logical theory wont work, negative sanctions wont work - and so am left with super glue.
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dd aged 12 popularity versus hearing aids no experience required mumsnetters as all ideas welcome
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Tortington · 09/03/2005 00:52
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