My DS2 seems to crave my attention in a way that is really getting me down. He has been like it on and off for a long time, he has phases of being slightly better or worse.
He goes to nursery 2 mornings a week and is fine when I leave him and is very happy there during the sessions. He also has no problem leaving my side at toddler groups and doing his own thing, so I don't think it's an attachment issue.
The problem is at home when it's just the 2 of us and DS1 is at school. Wherever I am in the house, he has to be in the same room - he really can't just seem to play with his toys for more than a few minutes without calling me to see where I am. If I'm doing housework he is continuously asking for something to get me to stop what I'm doing. I can't talk on the telephone without him shouting at me and wanting to talk on the phone too.
I've tried setting time aside for one-to-one activity, and he loves it. But the minute it's over he is back to playing up for my attention again.
Things I know he can do, like build a train-track, draw a picture or do a puzzle, he just says he can't do it or needs me to do it with him.
Even as I sit here and type he is constantly on at me asking for a hug, to get up on my lap, asking me to talk to him. We are in a room full of toys and he just won't play with them.
The only thing that gives me a break is the television and I hate myself for switching it on just to get some peace. I'm finding it so frustrating and am often short with him, which really doesn't help. Then I feel so guilty
Is anyone out there going through the same, or can give me some advice. Is this normal? I don't remember it being like this with DS1.
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I'm finding my 3yo's need for attention utterly wearing. Please help
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sclubheaven · 22/10/2008 14:49
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