My dd was 3 yesterday. For the past couple of months she has been scared of dh's brother....she's always been a bit wary of him, but it really kicked off a few months ago when he grabbed her and spun her round whizzy style - he thought she'd enjoy it...how wrong he was!!
It really came to a head yesterday at her birthday party - she was so upset when he came, clinging to me and crying and whenever he came near or tried to talk to her, she'd wrap herself round me for dear life! She will always ask "Will Uncle Simon be there" whenever we are going anywhere and has shown reluctance lately to go to dh's mums as quite often Uncle might have popped it too to see his mum.
It's so upsetting - for her, for her uncle and for us....he loves her to bits and is mortified she's like this with him. He and his family bought her a gorgeous Disney Dressing up dress that must have cost a fortune - and she barely said thank you . Although he said he understands, he just feels sad as he wants to sit her on his knee, read her a story and do all the things uncles should be able to do!!
It's really becoming a big deal to her and I don't know how to handle it. Any suggestions?
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3 yo really scared of her uncle......how can we handle it?
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mammabelleboo · 19/10/2008 11:57
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