My DS is 2.1 and over the last couple of months has started pushing, hitting and grabbing the hair of other children - quite viciously sometimes. It is really upsetting me as he is the most likeable little boy with adults, but other children are starting to give him a wide berth.
So what I have been doing is saying a firm NO, asking him to apologise to the child and then taking him away for a minute or so (with me) to explain about how other children won't want to play with him if he does it etc. I have been increasingly hovering over him as I never know when he is going to hit someone - size is no object to my DS! I intervene when he goes to snatch a toy from the other child because often this is when he will start hitting, and explain that we don't snatch toys, etc. Sometimes though the other children aren't bothered by him taking something and then I wonder whether I have done the right thing.
Does this sound like a reasonable thing to do? I feel so badly for the other children and wish DS would stop but at the same time I know he has had a lot to deal with lately (I am 7m pregnant and have been quite ill recently so not much energy) and he is a lovely little boy 95% of the time. I also know it is all normal - but he seems to do it more than other children. Amy advice welcome
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2 years old am hitting - am I dealing with this in the right way?
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TheProvincialLady · 17/10/2008 13:48
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