does anyone know how i should handle this please?
my lovely but excitable 2yr 4mth old daughter has recently begun to push over her nearly one year old brother. whenever i see (or hear) it happen i take her away from him, give him a quick cuddle (as he's nearly always crying), then tell her that she isn't to do it again and she must apologise. after a fashion she'll apologise, generally she prefers to just stroke his head, but i always hang on in there until she actually says the word sorry. however this doesn't seem to be stopping her from doing it again.
i mentioned it to my childminder who says that when she'd seen it it was nearly always a game that my ds was complicit in, that had gotten out of hand. however yesterday she told my husband that she felt we needed to develop a strategy, which she will follow also, to deal with it as my dd had pushed my lo over many times during the day.
i haven't a clue how to deal with this beyond what i've been doing. when i explain to my dd why she shouldn't push her brother over, she seems to understand and agrees she shouldn't do it, but then goes and does it again 10 minutes later. it's only really started since he's been properly walking but i need to nip it in the bud. can anyone advise please?
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2+yr old keeps pushin little brother over
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booboobunny · 15/10/2008 09:42
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