Oli has just turned 3. He speaks as if he's 30! He has been a bit of a nightmare since I had my second child just before his second birthday but the 'terrible two's' have played a big part of this- the usual frustrations of a young toddler! He's always been advanced, was always the first one to do anything that involved mental development; first one to talk, it feels as if he's always talked! My antenatal friends used to get worried that they're babies hadn't learnt as much as Oli had but it became a bit embarrassing because I didn't want them to feel that there children weren't as clever but to be honest we as parents were also shocked at how quickly he seemed and still picks things up!
Now he's been at nursery 3 full days a week for the last month and they have told us that perhaps we should think about putting him in school where he'll have more discipline and more mental stimulation and be able to move up early if he needs to. But as his birthday is August 30th he'll already be the youngest in his year and to me he's still so young- surely they should just be playing?
Very torn on this, need some advice please!
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divdavs · 30/09/2008 21:54
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