Just wondering, really, because mine does. And - having a neurotic moment - I'm wondering how "normal" this is.
Take yesterday evening: we had friends over who have a baby. DS was charming, playful, funny, intelligent, confident, thoughtful, helpful, sociable - for about four hours. I was in awe of him. Then he really did have to go to bed and Did Not Want To. Granted, he was a bit tired, but he threw toys at me in front of said friends , repeatedly slammed the bedroom door next to the room with the friends' sleeping baby in , hurled verbal abuse at me and got himself into a kicking frenzy. In the end, I smacked his bum for only the second time ever because I didn't know what the hell else to do, and then Dad took over bedtime and I had nothing more to do with him until this morning.
Felt really sad that such a lovely evening had ended like this, and a bit overwhelmed by how feisty DS can be and unsure of how to handle it.
DS has fewer temper outbursts now he's older, but my God they are explosive when they happen. Hopefully they'll keep lessening with age ...
Is this just four-year-olds? Or is mine a rarity and needs help?!
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Does your 4-year-old switch between seeming like a highly civilised, reasoning mini adult and a furious, irrational strop-throwing animal?
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barelysane · 21/09/2008 23:08
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