Have posted about my 5 yr old dd before. Since a baby she has never been very good at parting from me and I think this is part of her character. I work pt as an infant teacher but as a parent feel completely inequipped to know how to handle this now. I also feel so guilty that working has meant I have let her down in some way and not been there for her.
Its so difficult to know what to so - I dont want to be feeding the behaviour but I also want to reassure and be empathetic. This is all very real to her and I dont want to be dismissive but neither do I want to make mountains out of molehills.
She is sooo like me as a child - desperate to please and anxious to do the right thing, I see a lot of my traits that I would rather she didnt have!
She is now in Y1 and I am dreading taking her to school as she is so upset going in. She is worse now than in Reception. She has been worried her teacher (who is of the old-school/traditional type) is going to tell her off. I spoke to her teacher about it, who said she is an angel and has nothing to do worry about.
As a teacher, I know exactly how to handle a child like this and without blowing my own trumpet am pretty successful! As a parent I feel hopeless. I have tried a 'happy face' chart this week - but to no avail. I want to play it down but I also want to reassure her.
So .... what to do now? Has anyone got any tips I could try? Am feeling completely useless!!!
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Separation anxiety in 5yr old dd - how do you handle it?
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mrscraig · 19/09/2008 09:42
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