My gorgeous, wonderful, happy, but independent and willful (?) child has gone from being fun and controllable to a nightmare to understand and control within days.
She has always had a stubborn streak, for example, she loves to clean her teeth, but she has to do it, and refuses to let us do it for her (we do, but its a battle). She likes to try to put her own socks on before we do, and now she can.
She is very active, alert, into everything, on the go for the entire time she is awake.
She has been having tantrums, to be expected, and it has been manageable, usually when she is tired or hungry or both. They are very definite, last for about 10 minutes.
But over the last two days she has had more tantrums that are hard to manage, she has become very hyperactive, she throws things, hits, kicks much much more. She tips over her table, tips things out of her bowl. Sometimes it is in what seems to be anger, and sometimes it is defiant - she will do it, and look at me whilst doing it.
She is blowing raspberries at us when we ask her to do something, she says 'what' when we say something to her, and she gets into states a lot easier.
She is not eating very well, and is fighting her bedtime routine, but she is actually sleeping much better than she has been recently so I dont think its tiredness.
I have been poorly over the last week, could this be why she is playing up, because I have been less able to cope? Or is this an inevitable part of her development that we need to find a way of handling.
Everything so far has happened in a timely fashion, we have to an extent seen it coming, it has been slow enough for us to be prepare for it. But we did not see this coming!!!
I found last night before bedtime unbearable, and had to walk out of the room, and for the first time since she has been here, I looked forward to her going to nursery so they could deal with her.
Is this normal? how long before it passes? (please don't say when they leave home!)
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2.2 year old turned into a wild child overnight. Help?
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PavlovtheCat · 15/09/2008 17:57
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