DD is 2.2 and has been at her nursery for about 4 months. She is getting on great there and generally we are very happy with it.
They mentioned about a week ago to dh that they thought she should stop sucking her thumb. I was shocked, as I hadn't even thought this would be an issue yet.
Then this week dh said they had mentioned it to him again and said that they were trying to stop her and she came home saying "I will be ugly, my teeth will be ugly"
So, they have taken it into their own hands to try to break her of the habit and are using threats which I am really really not happy about.
Of course, I am going to talk to them about it, but I'm not sure what to think
What age do people feel that children should stop sucking their thumbs?
Maybe nursery knows something I don't; maybe they think that it's better to break them of the habit sooner rather than later, but she still seems so little to me. Maybe they want to have a consistent "no thumb-sucking" policy at nursery, so all the kids have good habits, in which case, I'd be happy to go along with it...I think.
Whatever their reasons, they definitely should have consulted more with us first before starting to talk to her like that, and surely there are better ways to discourage her than to make her concerned about her appearance when she is only 2 years old!!??
Mumsnet jury, what do you think?
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Nursery's attitude to thumb-sucking...not sure how to react..
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mrsbabookaloo · 14/09/2008 21:20
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