Hi all, having a similar time to a lot of others on here in that my 4yr old dd just started reception last week and is a nightmare. We have alot of just completely refusing to do stuff, just point blank "no", and lots of "why do I have to do what you say ? I dont want to . I hate everyone, I dont want you as my mum"
Most of it I just try to ignore - but when her behaviour is unacceptable - e.g she hit me the other day - then she goes for time out, but when I come to get her and she says sorry she does so trying to hide a smile!!! Should I the leave her there for another 5 mins as she clearly isnt sorry?
It just seems that whatever I do nothing phases her - I think she would happliy sit in the hall all day!!! I end up having to threaten to take stuff away , and then it seems im always threatening just to try and get her to so anything and I dont want to bring her up like that.
THe worse thing was the other night- she was crying over something silly as she was over tired, and a relative was goingso he went to kiss her as always and she kicked him really hard! Even worse is when my husband demanded she say sorry she just refused. HE was so embarrassed. What do we do. He sent her straight to bed, and she also had to go to bed early last night as her punishment. Do you think we did the right thin? I felt we needed to do more than time out.
I just dont know what puishment fits you know? Stuff like not banning t.v doesnt really bother her either. PLs help. Shes going to be horrible when she grows up!! I wanted more children but as Im not doing a good job of bring ing this one up Ive decided agianst it. Thank you
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how would you deal with this 4 yr old? pls. x
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