Every time Dd (7) and I have any kind of words or arguments she dissolves into tears and says she feels I don't love her. I have told her over and over again that it is normal to be cross with people at times but that doesn't mean you don't love them. I have held her tight and said I will love her forever annd ever whatever she does because that's what mums do. I have looked her in the eye and said "I love you". She doesn't seem to believe me.
We are having a lot of arguments at the moment because she is going through a very testing phase-arguing about every decision, nagging to get her way, throwing a fit if she doesn't, being very rude if things don't go her way etc etc.
I'm so scared that she really thinks I don't love her. I felt that when I was growing up, and still do now about my mum if I am honest, and I know how it feels. I SO don't want DD to feel like I did growing up but it seems she does and I have caused it. Can anyone help?
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Dd keeps saying she thinks I don't love her....what can I do?
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noche · 02/09/2008 19:48
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