I am getting grief from my sons school for him not remembering his stuff. When I try to support him or punish my son (which is very rare as he a lovely boy), my partner will not support me.....great father will emphasise, but I end up feeling cruel and having to explain what and why am doing what I do. I will not lie, I will carry out punishments which will include him having 5 mins out of the car because he has taken off his seatbelt when driving.... that is dangerous, or sit in the garden for 30 mins for not lisrening and arguing....where I can see he is safe. My partner doesnt like this and it turns into an argument because he will not come up with an alternative and i have to do this alone as well as put up with the greif when my son is at school. Athough to hell with it as I lso givemy son rewards when he is his awesome self, I know I am no angle, but to put it bluntly, he is doing m head in and I feel bad most the time as I am setting the law down, and although I am feling bad cos it's not enjoyable, my partner makes me feel even worst....grrrrr, getting to long.
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