My biggest regret so far is.......

[SqueezyDiva]

DS is still only 6 but I wish I had

Gotten a nanny instead of a day-nursery when he was a babe,

Taken him to the paed for his behavioural problems a year earlier

that´s it so far. anyone else?

[Bronze]

Done soemthing about my PND earlier with DS1. I still struggle with him and live with the guilt that I fucked him up in the early days.

[FrazzledFairyFay]

not being patient enough

[HeadFairy]

Not taking a full year of mat leave. It's been bloody hard bfing and doing totally unpredictable shifts.

[SqueezyDiva]

I suspect that the things we think we´ve done wrong they won´t remember. Anf the things we didn´t see as a problem, they´ll hate us for. That is until they have their own kids of course!

[HeadFairy]

hahaha wise words squeezydiva!

[meandmyjoe]

Pretty much echo bronze's post. Wish I'd have told people how demanding ds was instead of hiding away and pretending everything was OK and I was coping, when I wasn't.

[clarebear24]

Struggling with PND and not appreciating the first few mths with my beautiful baby