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My biggest regret so far is.......

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SqueezyDiva Sun 24-Aug-08 13:34:19

DS is still only 6 but I wish I had

Gotten a nanny instead of a day-nursery when he was a babe,

Taken him to the paed for his behavioural problems a year earlier

that´s it so far. anyone else?

Bronze Sun 24-Aug-08 13:35:26

Done soemthing about my PND earlier with DS1. I still struggle with him and live with the guilt that I fucked him up in the early days.

FrazzledFairyFay Sun 24-Aug-08 13:36:13

not being patient enough

HeadFairy Sun 24-Aug-08 13:36:56

Not taking a full year of mat leave. It's been bloody hard bfing and doing totally unpredictable shifts.

SqueezyDiva Sun 24-Aug-08 13:37:48

I suspect that the things we think we´ve done wrong they won´t remember. Anf the things we didn´t see as a problem, they´ll hate us for. That is until they have their own kids of course!

HeadFairy Sun 24-Aug-08 13:44:45

hahaha wise words squeezydiva!

meandmyjoe Sun 24-Aug-08 18:08:01

Pretty much echo bronze's post. Wish I'd have told people how demanding ds was instead of hiding away and pretending everything was OK and I was coping, when I wasn't.

Tclanger Sun 24-Aug-08 18:53:35

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

clarebear24 Sun 24-Aug-08 19:01:28

Struggling with PND and not appreciating the first few mths with my beautiful baby

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