My ds is 5 - nearly 6.
Recently he has been getting very grumpy. He has always been a bit of a handful - but has a lovely personality - as long as I keep him in check.
lately though it is getting harder. He is almost like a teenage sometimes. he is really testing the boundaries.
i have always been quite structured in handling him. 2 warnings and the naughty step, I am firm - but dont shout - lots of praise. but it is getting harder and harder to be honest.
I was wondering - is this a phase? Also - should I pull him up on everything he does? I do ignore some of his 'attitude behaviour' - as I feel that if i pull him up eveytime - it would be constant.
It is things like "Ds I have told you keep away from the road" he will say "am I deaf?"
things like that. And if I ask him to tidy his room he will create a fuss - and when he goes upstairs slam his door.
He is also a nightmare with friends (although they can be a pain too!) they bicker the whole time.
Please help. Should I come down on him firmer? Is this a stage? Any advice appreciated!!
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Please can you advise me about how to deal with my nightmare child!
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ssummers · 02/08/2008 21:08
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