I mentioned this on another thread but don't want to hijack that one, so here goes... any advice/suggestions welcome!
My DS will be 4 in September and is generally a really good little boy. He's currently prone to a bit of defiance but nothing unusual in my limited experience. The problem is when we put him to bed, he won't stay in there. Nothing has changed in his bedtime routine... it's now just become a habit to kick up a stink as soon as we've tucked him up. He says he's not tired, but I know he is as he's on the go from about 6.30am all day with no naps and I know it's just that he's realised that life goes on when he's in bed and he can't bear to miss out. He's a very demanding little chap.. always has to be talking and centre of attention, so it's not that surprising.
He's always been a bit reluctant to go to bed but before he responded to having one of this 3 stories taken away the next night. Then no TV the next day. However no threat works now and even getting cross just doesn't bother him. being nice and reassuring is fine until the moment you leave the room. We even put a baby gate over his doorway so he couldn't come out, but then he screams and screams and keeps his little brother awake.
I'm nearly at my wits end with it as it means we're all so tired all the time. This in turn makes his behaviour in the day worse. Basically we're all very irritable and desperately need to sort it out!
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How to get DS to stay in bed at bedtime-Help!!
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Phil75 · 24/07/2008 10:18
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