after the thread about me questioning ds bedtime i have begun to think things through a bit more.
i know ds1 chooses not to mix much, he has always been the same. he does get on with people and gets involved with people at school but it never progresses to a proper friendship.
he has never asked to bring anyone home and has never been invited to sleep out at anyones house ever.
even when younger he would never want to play outside with the others, always wants to be around the adults.
at school he stays behind helping the teachers and even eats lunch with them alot.
he is fantastic at all things technical and does sound and lighting for school productions etc and is sociable then but now it's the holidays, i don't think he will see anybody his age unless i invite someone over.
then, when i do i find it embarrassing as the only thing he will do with them is play on the computer or watch tv and they get bored!
he is a lovely boy, exceptionally intelligent, top of class for everything but i am worried that this is not a normal childhood. i haven't allowed free reign of sweets, bedtimes or tv in bedrooms so maybe i have alienated him somehow ??
i will only allow him and hour or 2 a day on the pc , hoping he will find something else to do, but he doesn't!
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cheeryface · 19/07/2008 22:09
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