Hi, my brother is getting married in september to a woman who is basically as rough as a rat catchers dog. She is a lot older than him and has never worked in her life. Anyway we make the effort for his sake and deep down she is not a bad person. They have asked her sisters children to be page boys (they are 3 and 6) and both have behavural problems and sware like trupers. Her 2 daughters are bridesmaids (6 and 12) and my brothers cousen is also going to be a bridesmaid. I have asked my brother wether our 3 year old daughter will be a bridesmaid and he said no, because she's too young. They are having a badly behaved 3 year old page boy so why not our daughter, who is very well behaved and is used to going to church. I see this as an indirect insult and my Dad has said that if he was me he wouldn't go to the wedding because of it. What would you do? would you go for your brothers sake or say sod it, if my daughter is not good enough to be a bridesmaid then we woun't be comming.
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