ds1 was 5 in november. His behaviour has gradually got worse since before christmas.
We have tried the positive reinforcement thing and the jar with marbles/pasta/pennies in, and star charts, but to no avail.
He is arguementative, boisterous and nasty to his sister (always has her in tears) He tells me he hates me wants a different mummy. If we go out anywhere, he ruins it for everyone moaning and being horrid to everyone.
Last night we were going to take the kids out for dinner as a treat but his behaviour forfieted it for everyone. (I told dh to just take the other 2 kids and I would stay home with ds1 but he said that was cruel of me )
So I cooked them all meat and potatoes. DS1 sat there for an hour and a half crying about it. In the end I told him to get in his pyjamas and go to bed.
He gets enough attention and I always make sure I have enough time to spend with the children equally.
We found out that there was a boy in his class who was pushing him, but ds didnt seem bothered. This lad is now under supervision at all times as he has hurt so many children in the class he isn't allowed near them now. (incidentally the mother is up in courst for glassing someone in a pub the other week) I have asked him if he is bothered by this boy and he says no.
I don't know if this behaviour is related to this lad at school or not. I know he probably sounds like a typical 5 year old, but its hurting me to see my little boy getting so bad.
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5 year old ds is getting worse (sorry long)
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Titania · 03/02/2005 12:34
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