My two DDs (almost 4) are very friendly with a little girl at their nursery and they talk about her at home quite a lot. I don't know the girl or her mother but last week the girls mother came over and introduced herself and invited my two over for lunch and to play later this week. She said she would pick all three of them up from nursery, take them to her place for lunch/play and then I could pick mine up later in the afternoon.
Now, I'm really pleased that they've been invited out and it's great that this woman is making an effort like this but I feel a bit wary of letting my two go off with a complete stranger, in her car and to her house. I know absolutely nothing about the family. Is this the usual way play dates are done, or do the mums normally get to know one another, meeting up with the kids before they go on their own? I'm not even sure that one of my girls would like it, she's quite nervous around new people. On the other hand a whole morning and afternoon to myself sounds bliss .
I'm interested to hear others experiences of play dates.
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Play dates - all new to me. Opinions sought please!
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sandyballs · 24/01/2005 10:14
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