I posted recently about my sensitive ds, aged 7. Since Reception class he has been with a boy who is such a bully and really imtimidates ds.
In reception class he kicked ds so hard that he left a big black bruise on his leg. In Year 1 he squeezed ds's privates so hard that ds was in tears when I picked him up as he said he had a stomach ache. There have been so many incidents to be honest. Towards the end of yr1 he suddenly started to really try and be ds's friend and ds joined the judo club he was in. I was really wary of the "friendship" but thought it was ds's choice and what could I do???
Thankfully they have been split this year but still continue going to judo together.
Ds doesn't play with him anymore but invited him to his party as he had been invited to his (crazy I know!!!). Last week they were both at a different party and dh took ds. Apparently this child started strangling ds and then threw him to the floor! When dh told me I was so upset. Anyway at ds's party before it had even started he ran up to ds and banged him in his eye twice with the palm of his hand, completely unprovoked . Ds was hysterical, his poor eye was bright red. The mum was embarrased and was going to take him home but changed her mind. He then attacked another child in the same way as ds, going again for this poor boy's eye. When it was time to give out drinks ds (being birthday boy) was at the front of the queue and this child was screaming in ds's face I WANT TO GO FIRST, over and over again. Ds was again in floods of tears and I just wanted the party over. The mum is seriously in denial that there is a problem and is not approachable. people have tried before but she doesn't want to know.
What on earth can I do?? I told ds to tell him he doesn't want to be his friend anymore and ds said he didn't want to hurt this other child's feelings [FFS!!].
I don't give a sh*t about this child. I just want him to leave poor ds alone
I have been awake since just after 6 thinking about it all. I am so angry and upset that ds has to put up with this. I have even been into school about it and nothing has happened Why are these children allowed to get away with terrorising others????
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Ds's birthday party ruined about bully. I have had ENOUGH !!!!!!!!!
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Blossomhill · 24/01/2005 07:33
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