Ds (2) is behaving pretty badly at the moment - lots of smacking and toy throwing. So yesterday I started using time out, moving him away from his cousin whenever he smacked, making him sit on his own for two minutes and making him say sorry. Because it didn't seem to make any difference my mum tells me I need to "lose my temper" more often and I suspect she thinks he needs a smack.
I think it couldn't be expected to work instantly on day 1 and we need to be consistant over a time period. I also think shouting is ineffective as it just becomes "blah, blah, blah" to a child. I'm sure I'm right and it will work eventually but feel really undermined by my mum's nagging
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Please tell me calm and consistant is better than yelling and smacking...
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deaconblue · 09/06/2008 10:15
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