We have a 5 week old daughter (Madison) who was 3 weeks premature. Unfortunately, my other half got into the habbit of allowing Madison to sleep on her and we are now in the situation where she will not sleep at night unless she is on one of us. In the day she will go down in her chair or in her basket OK ? it is at night that we have the problem. When she sleeps like that, she often goes 4 ? 5 hours between feeds (every couple of hours during the day). She is being breast fed. I am currently trying to break that habit and last night was the second night.
First night actually went quite well. She went down at 19:00 in her basket in our room ok ? although I think she was asleep from being fed. She woke at 21:00 for a feed and it took me an hour to get her back settled. When she cried I would calm her, mainly by picking her up for a minute or so and then putting her back down, each time letting her cry for a bit ? sometime up to 10 minutes if it was stop start crying as it usually was. She woke about every 2 hours in the night for a feed but was actually quite good re-settling. The other half was rocking her in her basket a bit but not completely back to sleep.
Last night was terrible. Again went down at 19:00 no problem but probably asleep same as before. She was fed at 22:00 when she woke up and it then took 2 hours to settle her ? actually had to feed her again at 23:30 before she went down.
Woke up at just after 3 for a feed and it was gone 4:30 before she settled ? I was on the verge of throwing in the towel when she finally stopped. My other half is not good at night and this does not help me with her sighing etc all the time. She supports what I am trying to do in the day but at night displays of such support are absent and this makes it even more difficult for me.
Am I doing the right thing or is she too young to be doing this. How long should it take? Throwing this in with work is making this very difficult.
Thanks for any advice.
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Help with problems getting a 5 week old to settle for sleep at night
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themadsinger · 28/05/2008 09:31
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