just started over the last week or so - i've got 2 older dc's but they've never been like this. He can scream and sob for half an hour - today's one was because he wanted an apple just before dinner so i offered him a bit of carrot instead ( he normally eats them but def not today!) so i ignored him and i ignored him some more then i played on the floor with his toys then i told him if he didint stop i would put him on the naughty step. he didint stop so i tried to put him there but he was writhing about so much i ended up putting him in his cot. I ignored him for a good while then came downstairs and got him his dummy.
I was annoyed at myself for giving him his dummy cause he only has it for sleeps but i just felt cuddling would start even more tantrums in the future. but i'd ignored it for ages and it was just never stopping.
Is 21 months too young for ignoring/naughty step or should i have picked him up and held him tight?
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tantrums at 21 months - to ignore or not to ignore?
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canella · 26/05/2008 22:04
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