DS1 had an argument with a girl in school today about whether he should read something out loud in class. They were working in a group; she wanted DS1 to read it out and he didn't. He told me that he said 'You aren't the boss of me' and felt 'like crying, not out loud but in my brain'.
All OK but then at tea time today he went on to describe how he was going to kill her and her family when he was grown up - in a huge amount of detail. I did the 'reflecting back' thing - "You sound very angry" and also the moral bit " You know it's wrong to kill someone" but he wouldn't budge or even seem to admit that it wasn't anything but a good idea. It's not the first time he's done this, but it's been a long time. He is a very calm, placid child as a rule but occasionally has out of proportion reactions to people who have upset him in some way.
Do typical 7 year olds talk like this? And how should I handle it?
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Worrying conversation with DS1(7)
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sphil · 16/05/2008 20:07
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